Vacation Time: Shopping – Waxing Troubles – Vacation Jitters

Hello People!

First off, I am finally going on a proper vacation after almost 2 ½ yrs. Can I still call it that if I’m going with a naughty toddler?? Will be going out with my husband, my brother and his wife. With my son in tow, we’ll be seeing a lot of Beach and Sea scenes. Super excited about the tour because I’ll be away from the mundane for 5 whole days. And I get a bonus weekday work-off after the vacation.

Anyway, like for any vacation ahead, I have prepared a check list of items that I have to get done. Like – Shopping, shopping, shopping and some more shopping!!

shopping

Got almost everything ticked off from the list. Bought some really cute Tees and Shorts for my kid and cool onesies for myself. Luckily, even the universe conspired to give us good stuff and the shopping malls near us gave us this huge exciting sales and deals. I, along with my sisters-in-law have shopped for 6 hours non-stop trying out all the dresses. (It’s a secret: I have bunked my work and went shopping)

Finally, nearly all the shopping done, there was one other important to-do item left out from my check-list

The customary visit you pay to a salon before you go on a vacation!!

So after spending an eternity on shopping for clothes, I decided to skip the fancy stuff from the salon services. Like the luxury facial and massage treatments. Also, like someone said somewhere on the internet, It’s really hard to impress the Salon lady/parlor auntie. They come up with numerous suggestions about how bad your skin is, or how better and bright your eye region can look with the latest mask they introduced, or how dry your hair is and how you can get it all right with their special spa treatments. So, not to get tempted for all those things, I have decided to do the substitute of salon’s face clean up myself at home later. I went with a straight face and directly asked the lady for a waxing service. They still came up with the de-tanning masks and all for my arms and legs. They just don’t accept defeat, now. I gave in and went ahead with that.

The first part was good – The de-tanning. I almost dozed off while waiting for it to get dry or do its job (after a day’s long work at office – not sure I made much progress with the to-do list of my job, though). Then came the hot wax: which by itself wakes you up with too many uffs and aahs to cool off the hot wax drops that get spilled on the way to getting spread. And then…… Zzzzaappp!!

waxing

Done. This is it. The pulling out the sticker part. May be I have already died – but somehow still feel the pain?? Possible? Nope.  So, I went back to striking (quite literally) reality and asked the lady to be gentler with the process. But, the hairs that grew up are too stubborn – like me. I know, had I not been lazy and paid the visit to salon last month too, it would have been easier this time. But super lazy me thought – “It’s still fine, I can go there next month before I go to the vacation and deal with the load all at once” and took the brunt. Even after so many years of getting my arms and legs waxed, the pain is still the same. Why god why?! All the ads on the TV show how easy it is to get waxed/shaved without the slightest pain. But they are showing everything done on the already hairless arms and legs!! Or is everyone out there as body-hairless as the models they show on TV? Answer to this is, as I know, Nope. Anyway, I went about doing the ouch s, aahs throughout the session and tried hard to stay put only by picturing myself in that cute LBD that I bought for the trip (B for blue, not black). That did the trick and numbed the pain for me this time.

Is there a life lesson that I’m going to draw from this experience? Like – “However tough the path may seem, imagining yourself successful at whatever you want, makes the path you took much easier to deal with” or, “Never quit. Try again and again till you reach your goal?” Hell, no. Or maybe yes. It’s easy to go all philosophical when you are in pain.

The only good thing that comes out of waxing other than being hairless for less than 20 days is: the free massage they give to rub-in the moisturizer after the wax. Few minutes (or is it seconds?) of solace.

This time, like every time, before leaving the salon, I decided I won’t be lazy but visit the salon more regularly. Lesson learnt once again! Mission ‘salon-visit-before-vacation’ accomplished. Ticked off from the check list.

And finally, leaving my painful past behind, I go about packing all the goodies in my vacation bags. This brings huge jitters to me. Does anyone have vacation jitters like I do (like wedding jitters) before going on a vacation?? Or is it just me?

Or is it maybe because I’m going with my sweetheart kiddo that I’m this nervous?? We did not take him out all by ourselves till now. And, this will be the first 1 week where he’ll be around only 4 people (young adults or are we grown-ups already??) to look after. He is surrounded by too many people at home daily, you know. Both sets of grandparents (not like in Charlie and the chocolate factory, but almost), aunts and uncle.

I hope we have good time and he has great time with us.

I’m saying bye-bye now. Have lots of pending work to complete and packing to do later. Will be sharing my time during vacation once I’m back 😀 Meanwhile, do share your shopping-for-vacation/waxing-for-vacation/vacation experiences in the comments section.

The Demands of a New Relationship

Heyos People,

To start with, I have finally decided to post at least once every week if not more frequently (some discipline will do me good). That thing out, I’ll now continue with my rants adding to my previous post from last week ‘That Glow of Having a New Crush’

So, like in the beginning of any new relationship, I have thought of little else over the weekend but the blogging and the topics that I can make my niche from.

Little else included:

  • Playing with my kid
  • Trying and failing to get my kid to eat and sleep properly
  • Trying and failing to sleep without him anyway
  • Entertaining and hosting a re-union with my school friend (she has a kid of the same age as mine). 2 kids make things more difficult and we ended up spending the entire time in different rooms with our respective kids
  • Shopping with my husband (Who doesn’t have time for shopping?!)
  • Going out for a party with cousins (Same goes with partying. who doesn’t have time?!)
  • Trying and failing to put my kid to sleep again! – Finally dozed off at 5:30 am and woke up with a start at 8:30 to rush for my day job.

While doing all of these ‘little else’ stuff, I was continuously coming back to my blog. My thoughts were inadvertently revolving around What I can do to be at a happy place with my blogging. I was checking with everything I did, if this thing can give me a potential topic to write (boy, was that stressful?!). I admit I’m guilty of not taking out time for proper brainstorming session.

Yet, I strongly feel that the topic I can talk on for hours happily if no one stops me is – my love for books and book reading – How it made my life much more beautiful and awesome, how I feel it’s the best thing to do ever, how it…(See? I’m already unstoppable at it 😛 ) This is the one answer that comes back to me every single time I ask myself “what would I do without getting bored if I get loads of free time”. So, I think I’ll take up a book reading challenge soon and post my reviews in this blog.

Anyway, coming back to the analogy I’m drawing between my blogging and being in a new relationship: New relations are demanding. They ask for your time, lots of it. Or maybe, it’s the other way round –  you crave for that time. You don’t know how to strike up a conversation with your crush that will make you look cool – what to post. You don’t know what could send your crush away without coming back to you ever again – what is the take away you are giving your audience: is it good enough for their time. You are not sure if you are overdoing something or under doing it – How frequently to post stuff – for your audience to remember you are still in the scene but not boring them with too much junk.

One thing I’m realizing with all these thoughts in my head is, you should be yourself. You should be happy doing it. Not taking too much stress about what can go wrong is the key. If you are worrying  a little too much or you are being extra cautious or conscious, you can be sure to eventually bore your crush off by being too artificial or structured.

The initial part is always difficult – approaching your crush/starting a blog. It’s OK to be not sure. That’s what makes the interaction cute and interesting (read fresh).

So maybe I’ll do the same thing with my blog too! I’ll put up random posts, some hopefully good ones and many terrible ones – but I’ll do it anyway. Hopefully, after some embarrassing encounters, I’ll be able to establish a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with this fling.

This post is dedicated to all the new bloggers out there, who signed up for blogging as a hobby, or as a vent, or to learn a bit more about themselves, to interact and have fun, or all of it!! Cheers to you guys. Random rantings are also OK at the beginning to get you going (rather than giving up). Go ahead and write away!! 😀

*All this advice is primarily for me.. piling up the courage to write more*

And do write a comment or two about how you liked the post. Happy writing (reading) to you! 🙂

 

That Glow of Having a New Crush

So People,

You know the phase where you have a new crush and you really can’t get over that awesome butterflies-in-stomach feeling, which you get every time you catch yourself thinking about, and obsessing over the time you spent or going to spend with your crush??

That’s the state I am currently in. And my crush is… (Any guesses there??)

This Blog writing, of course 😀 😀

While I’m at it, I realized just back in the morning (when I was scouring through the blogs on blogging 😉 ) that, whatever I put up on my “My First Blog Post” post must actually be on the “About” section of my site (or so the gurus on the internet said 😐 )

Anyway, since no one wants to pull down their first post, I don’t do that either. I’ll pretend to be in this ignorant blissful state (while being inwardly embarrassed ‘about’ the now-obvious mistake I made).

Coming back to how I was glowing all through since that post yesterday, I was smiling away like a fool every time I thought of it. The hype and the giggles I flooded my husband with, to reveal my blogging secret (it was supposed to remain a secret).. It’s like a magic force that pushed me to go through the same routine I follow day-in and day-out everyday, but this time, without the boredom that usually entails. There’s this merry and bright spot to look forward to the entire day that I had easily floated through my day-job without the slightest frowns or creases today.

* oh my god. oh my god :O The mom-guilt kicked in!! 😦 *

Of course my kid is my brightest spot that I look forward to the entire day, everyday. Not taking that away now.. Just that, this is something new which I started for myself and to do a bit more to discover my passion.

(Did I tell you I have a 1.6 YO kid?? Duh!! the ‘about me section‘ again :|)

 

Did I say ‘Passion’ above?? Coming to that right away..

So, like I said, I was scouring through the internet to know more about the art of blogging, when I found that, as a blogger, I am supposed to have a ‘niche’. 

(wait! what is this now??)

Niche, is a topic/theme you are passionate about/specialize in. The topics around which your blog content is woven. Really now?! This is like Inception movie (like dream inside a dream inside a dream)- finding your passion to find your passion 😛 😉

*my brainWhat The ….. me: I know right!!*

Thankfully, there are good answers to all of my possible whats and whys. And, I am advised to have a brainstorming session to list down the topics I can start off with.

Writing this second post on a Friday, gives me just enough time to rack my brain over the weekend to come up with a good niche (hopefully when my kid sleeps and I don’t sleep.. hard to find that time 😛 ).

Finally, the point I want to make while talking about having a crush is, no matter what blunders I make, or what new surprises I get (like the niche thing I read) , I am making that effort to keep every encounter with my crush (read my blog 😀 ) interesting and happening 🙂

So folks out there, plunge into whatever you want to try (as long it’s healthy and harmless) and experience that glow of having a new crush!! 😀

Do leave a comment on your crushes, niches, or this post 😉 Hope you enjoyed reading it 🙂

 

Yippie!!! My First Blog Post!

Hello World!

Being from a software programming background, I didn’t find a better sentence to start my new blog. Printing “Hello World!” is so assuring somehow.

Anyway, I’ll straight away jump to telling “Who I am, what I’d like to do with this blog space and what I’d like to share with the world” as the WordPress happily suggested me to do with my first blog post.

Well, as my handle suggests, I am a clueless, trying-to-find-my-thing person (as part of overcoming my quarter life crisis), just beginning to try my hand at writing and interacting with this big broad world to see if writing is my thing or not! (sorry for being so repetitive with my words). Also, to check if this, after so much probing at other places, finally induces that passion that I have always romanticized and dreamt of.

Coming to what I’d do and share through this blog, Will be ranting over about various topics such as my love for books, good food, Sleeeeep,  and my struggle with raising a super naughty kid. Would love to hear from people who share similar interests, who are as clueless as I am 😛

So world, bring it on!! 🙂 😀

 

(*How do I change the theme and the picture that’s in display?!! God!! Really need to explore how this works.*)

post